BDSM, Fetish and kink objects and Terms
The BDSM, Fetish and Kink objects on display at LAM and those frequently used by buyers, were a vital aspect of how kinky identity was constituted within London Alternative Market. Many buyers could be seen trying and feeling the various items of display. They described how the objects they bought were customised to their specific desires and socially appropriated according to the BDSM, Kink and Fetish community in particular contexts.
BDSM, Kink and Fetish ObJECTS
A whole range of BDSM, Kink and Fetish objects are available at LAM. Each store holder offers something slightly different, even on the smallest level. The images below show some of the items on display.
TERMS:
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Below lists just some of terms and objects specific to the BDSM, Kink and Fetish community surrounding LAM. Click on the buttons to find examples of the definitions.
refers to bondage and discipline (B&D), dominance and submission (D&S), and sadism & masochism (S&M). These terms are lumped together because BDSM can be a lot of different things to different people.
refers to the dominant partner or role. May otherwise be referred to as Top or Mistress/Dominatrix (female)
refers to sexual fetishism or erotic fetishism. The person is said to have a fetish for a specific non living object, body part of substance
refers to social media platform predominantly used by those in the BDSM, Kink and Fetsh community.
refers to an object used to 'flog' a consenting partner during BDSM play. Floggers usually consist of a rigid handle from which is attached several tails made of leather, rubber or similar materials.
refers to sexual practices where one person is struck by another person for the sexual gratification of either or both parties. It is a form of BDSM.
Spanking, flogging, caning, cropping, and paddling are all activities considered impact play.